Chapter 352
Chapter 352
Cheng Qigang was speechless.
Looking back, those years were not easy.
Being well-matched is not simply about being rich or poor, but about different levels, different people, different relatives and friends, and different ideas.
Zhang Hongzhi was really desperate when she was young.
In that era, she didn't care about anything and was stubborn. When she quarreled with her father, she just slammed the door and left.
At that time, she said to Cheng Qigang, I don't want anything, I just want you as a person, I want you to be good to me, we can live a stable life, there will be milk and bread.
At that time, I was too idealistic and naive.
I even looked down on those girls who married bosses or cadres' families.
But after getting married, I realized what reality was.
Cheng Qigang's parents have a typical small peasant mentality.
Before they got married, they praised Zhang Hongzhi highly and said nice things, such as the phoenix flew into the mountain nest.
After getting married, I found that the eldest daughter of the official family was very particular about this and that, and then the relatives in the village played tricks and actually wanted to set up family rules for the daughter-in-law.
When I was pregnant with my eldest daughter, I was greedy and wanted to eat something good. When I told my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law said that no one in her village was pregnant with twins like you.
When Zhang Hongzhi said that one of her sisters was pregnant, her mother-in-law said that was someone else's, and she couldn't compare. Our family was just like this.
She even secretly asked Zhang Hongzhi to go back to her parents' home. Your parents' conditions are good, and you have everything, right?
At that time, Cheng Qigang's factory had just started to pick up a little bit, and he was busy and tired. Zhang Hongzhi really swallowed her tears.
Later, Cheng Qigang's career took off, and his parents-in-law started again. They thought that their son was capable, and then they turned around and said that Zhang Hongzhi's family looked down on him.
It was also because Zhang Hongzhi had a strong personality that she was able to control it.
It can be said that she was not wrong about him. Cheng Qigang is not very capable, but he has been tolerant of her in every aspect for so many years.
But so many years have passed, and the sisters who married well back then are now living better than her. Some have settled abroad, some are the wives of leaders, and some have assets of hundreds of millions.
She thought it was a great choice back then, but she found that in the end, she only moved herself.
When I was young, I thought that my life was my own. At this age, I realized that this was not true. In the end, life is for others to see.
So sometimes Zhang Hongzhi thought, if she hadn't forced Cheng Qigang to go into the sea, if she hadn't run back to her parents' home to borrow a large sum of money from relatives, Cheng Qigang would probably be the same as his old buddy Xu Guangcheng, right?
What about herself, would she become a joke because of the choice she made back then?
In fact, this is the reality!
So Zhang Hongzhi is so paranoid about her eldest daughter!
After all, she is her daughter, and she knows her too well.
Cheng Qigang was right. His daughter's personality was like hers, but not completely.
She was just as stubborn, but she didn't have the ruthlessness that Zhang Hongzhi had back then. Of course, this was because she, as a mother, had taken care of her too comfortably for so many years.
But the less ruthlessness she had, the more Zhang Hongzhi dared not let go.
She had been able to control Cheng Qigang so well over the years, and the couple had no temper in front of her.
But what if it wasn't so?
Why did she panic when Cheng Qigang calmly proposed a divorce today?
Because this marriage was divorced, the family was broken, and Zhang Hongzhi would become a joke in her life. She would lose her dignity and everyone would look down on her.
The more desperate you are, the more you can't afford to lose!
The other option is Huang Zilong and Xu Anruo. Zhang Hongzhi also had a deep thought and comparison.
The former has a good family background and good upbringing, but in terms of skills and personal potential, he is indeed not as good as the latter.
But from the perspective of parents, this is an advantage.
It would be fine if the latter didn't have much success, but if she did, haha... Zhang Hongzhi felt that she would definitely not be able to control her daughter, and it would be difficult for her to keep a good attitude.
The years when she accompanied Cheng Qigang to start his business were also a period of rapid economic growth in the country. People around him who dared to think and act had more or less become rich, and there were many examples of people becoming bad when they had money.
Then Zhang Hongzhi discovered a pattern.
Those who had a good family background and were decent could settle down after getting married.
On the contrary, those who started their business later and didn't have enough to eat when they were young, became more and more worthless, and the more capable they were, the more worthless they were!
Cheng Qigang was honest and not very capable. He started his business with the help of Zhang Hongzhi step by step. Even so, he still made her upset from time to time in the past few years.
Besides, in this era when the class is gradually solidifying, how much can his son Xu Guangcheng have?Do you have the ability to match the family background of Ren Zilong's family who is sure to become the top leader of the city?
Not to mention that you are only from Jiang University, even if you are from Tsinghua University or Peking University, you are far behind!
...
Cheng Qigang felt really guilty at this time.
After Zhang Hongzhi complained, she felt much better.
No matter what, they are a couple after all. They have lived for half of their lives and are living a prosperous and decent life. It is not worth it.
"Hongzhi, I know it's not easy for you. I just thought about it and felt that we were too radical about the child's issue. I will go to Lucheng in the afternoon and scold her!" Cheng Qigang thought for a while and said.
Zhang Hongzhi didn't say anything.
Cheng Qigang added:
"This matter is my fault. I shouldn't have run to Xu Guangcheng. Now Luo Xiulan has shown her attitude. I am just like my daughter clinging to their family. It's boring!"
"You still know?!" Zhang Hongzhi said angrily.
"I will also talk to my daughter. I know you are a mother and you want to do good for her, but don't rush. She is only a freshman. If she goes to graduate school in the future, it will be even earlier. Just wait and see. She is still young and ignorant now. She will understand in a few years, right, madam?"
"Hmph! How old are you? You are still so slick!"
"You are still my wife no matter how old you are. Okay, I'm hungry. Can you make some dumplings for me?"
"Why don't you starve to death?"
Zhang Hongzhi said this, but she still stood up.
Although she has been thinking about this and that, she has never regretted it in all these years.
What can I say? Cheng Qigang was indeed a famous handsome man in the area, and he was also down-to-earth. She really liked this man.
When cooking dumplings, Zhang Hongzhi's heart was actually a little loose.
Especially when Cheng Qigang kept calling her "Madam" in a slick way, she was in a trance and returned to the time when they were in love.
...
On the other side.
Around ten o'clock.
Xu Anruo's phone rang. It was Fu Yanjie calling.
"Hello, are you home?" the other end asked.
"At home." Xu Anruo put her phone aside and turned on the speakerphone.
"Then I'll come to you now." The fat man said.
"Okay." Xu Anruo responded.
Then he didn't take it seriously.
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