Chapter 238
Chapter 238
Without waiting for Lao Wang to answer, Xu Anruo spoke first and said:
"I don't need it! Let me say it again. I have no interest in expanding my social circle in this regard, so Lao Wang, you should have a bottom line in your heart and don't say anything nonsense."
"I know, I know, just get to know each other, it's not like we're getting married on the spot, haha!"
Wang Qinrui responded with a smile.
He was completely immersed in excitement and anticipation, and obviously didn't listen to Xu Anruo's words.
Zhao Ming also laughed blindly, with an expectant and envious look, and said:
"Lao Wang, congratulations, it seems that you are the first person in our 542 to get out of singleness!"
"Hehe..."
Lao Wang smiled and said nothing.
Damn, he took it seriously? ?
To be honest, there is nothing wrong with liking someone.
Everyone's youth is like this, there will always be a shining figure breaking in, embellishing that barren and restless inner world.
The difference is that some people are silent, some are proactive, some have good results, and some have bitter results.
Xu Anruo lay on the bed and pondered for a while, and decided to help his poor roommate.
However, he was still unsure about Wang Qinrui.
He had never seen that girl in his previous life, and he only heard about it from Lao Wang. Lao Wang was twisted and a little vain, and only talked about good things and not bad things.
But Xu Anruo was sure about Zhao Ming.
In a word, he was too much of a loser.
It was true that he was a social bull, but he lacked a sense of boundaries.
He didn't like to think before speaking, and he claimed that he was straightforward, and that men should be like this.
When chasing girls, he had no strategy or method. He thought of himself as a warm man, and he only knew how to be nice to others, good morning and good night, and a girl's words made him worry about gains and losses.
"Headlights?" Xu Anruo shouted.
"Ah? Lao Xu, what's wrong?" Zhao Ming responded.
"Tell me about the girl you like?"
"This, this is not good?"
Zhao Ming was embarrassed.
Wang Qinrui said with a smile:
"What's wrong with that? Old Xu has asked you, so tell me now!"
"Well, I can't say I like her, I just have a good impression of her and think she's pretty good."
"What's her name?"
"Qian Jiajia, I was in the same class in high school, and she was the class flower."
When Zhao Ming said this, he started to act silly.
Xu Anruo continued to ask:
"Which school are you in now? What's your family like? Do you know that you like her?"
"She's in the Agricultural University, her family... is similar to mine, her father is a small contractor, I think, you should know, right?" Zhao Ming replied.
"Does she like you? Or, how likely do you think it is for you two?" Xu Anruo asked again.
"I don't know, maybe I need to work harder, after all, chasing girls is not an easy thing, she also said that things that are too easy to get are always not cherished!"
Zhao Ming also blurted out a classic quote.
Xu Anruo laughed.
Then, he continued to ask:
"Then how did you pursue her?"
"Ah? Lao Xu, why are you asking so much?"
"If I don't ask clearly, how can I teach you to pursue her?"
"Fuck, Lao Xu, are you serious?"
"Really!"
"How to pursue, right? I don't know how to say it. I have never pursued a girl before. I just chatted with her, sent her good morning and good night messages, and followed her when I saw something on her space. I would see if I could get what she wanted..."
"Okay, no need to say!"
Xu Anruo interrupted directly.
Zhao Ming was talking excitedly, feeling good about himself, as if the things he did seemed affectionate enough.
"Why don't you let me say it?" Zhao Ming was a little anxious, and his accent came out.
"Because you are wrong!" Xu Anruo said directly.
"Ah? What's wrong with this?" Wang Qinrui couldn't help asking.
Xu Anruo glanced in the direction of Lao Wang's bed and shook his head. The two made the same mistake.
Or maybe the simpler boys of this era all think this way.
If you like a girl and want to pursue her, shouldn't you be considerate of her and treat her well?
"The direction is wrong!"
Xu Anruo said boldly.
Then, he explained:
"Your pursuit, in essence, is to seek a kind of touch, thinking that if you treat her well, she will be touched and will be with you. But this is wrong, because liking is not touching, what is liking? Liking is a kind of attraction!"
After Xu Anruo finished speaking, the dormitory fell silent.
Zhao Ming and Wang Qinrui stopped talking.
"So, Da Deng, you have to change your mindset."
"How to change?"
"Think about what is attractive about you?"
"Ah? Me, do I have it?"
"No? You are C9, she is a non-double-A student,Advantages are attraction! Secondly, if there is no attraction, then cultivate and create attraction. What's the point of saying good morning and good night to her every day? What's the point of you circling around her? "
Xu Anruo asked several questions in a row, leaving Zhao Ming speechless.
"On the contrary, you clean yourself up, be neat and tidy, and then go to do things, whether it's studying or student work in clubs, make some achievements, isn't that attractive?"
"Go deeper, improve your inner self, your three views, your personal charm, your thinking pattern and vision, you have to make her feel that you are a very special person, right?"
"Finally, let me be frank, who is that? Qian Jiajia, right? She talked about you with her roommate, and she said that you are so amazing and different from other boys. Her roommate envied you to death, so doesn't she like you to death too?"
"Attract, attract, this is attraction! "
Finally, Xu Anruo reiterated the main points!
The dormitory in the dark was silent.
The three roommates were obviously enlightened.
After a long while, Zhao Ming took a deep breath and said seriously:
"Old Xu, you are right, liking is not touching!"
Xu Anruo did not speak.
Let him think and digest it.
But after a while, Wang Qinrui suddenly asked:
"Old Xu, do you get up every morning to run?"
"Yes."
Xu Anruo responded.
Wang Qinrui asked again:
"Get up so early every day? Aren't you tired? How do you stick to it?"
"Just get used to it."
"Habit? Well, Old Xu, I really admire you. You have such excellent conditions, but you are still so self-disciplined and hardworking. It's amazing!"
"Not really. "
Xu Anruo was a little embarrassed.
Then, he still said seriously:
"Self-discipline is definitely right, and hard work is also right, but these are personal choices. What kind of person do you want to be, you must do something in this direction. "
"Old Xu, I will run with you tomorrow morning!"
Suddenly, Zhao Ming said excitedly.
Then, Wang Qinrui also said:
"Me too!"
"Then I can't fall behind!"
"Wow, Old Xu, you are still awake?"
"I have been listening to Old Xu's lectures and benefited a lot!"
Xu Shouquan said with a smile.
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